Handling Disappointment

You rejoice in this, though now for a short time you have had to struggle in various trials.

1 Peter 1:6, HCSB

YOU HAVE A GOOD JOB, but you’ve applied for what appears to be a dream gig. If only your potential employers would see the light of day and hire you, this is a job that you could absolutely knock out of the park. The more you think about this new opportunity, the more excited you get.

The job seems to be perfect for you, and you seem to be perfect for it. The company, however, hires someone else. Your application was one of maybe hundreds that flooded the human resources department, and this time around, yours didn’t make it to the top of the heap. The disappointment you feel is very real.

After some prayerful consideration, you’re able to put the episode into perspective. As nice as the new job would have been, life is great as it is right now. You’re more than able to make ends meet with the job you have, and that’s a lot more than many people can say these days.

Think about what a potential relocation would have meant. You and your wife have extensive roots where you live now—you attend a great church and your kids go to an awesome school. What other costs might have been involved? You didn’t get this job, but in the end, you can be thankful. God knows what He’s doing. The important thing is to keep praying and to trust Him no matter what.

BOTTOM LINE

You know that job you really, really want? It may not be so perfect after all. Surrender to God’s will, and be thankful for what you have and where you are.

Moment of Strength: Philippians 4:4-7