Criticism

criticism - What is a wise way to approach criticism—both giving and receiving it?

Fools think their own way is right, but the wise listen to others. A fool is quick-tempered, but a wise person stays calm when insulted. An honest witness tells the truth; a false witness tells lies. Some people make cutting remarks, but the words of the wise bring healing.

Proverbs 12:15-18

Timely advice is lovely, like golden apples in a silver basket. To one who listens, valid criticism is like a gold earring or other gold jewelry.

Proverbs 25:11-12

Don’t speak evil against each other, dear brothers and sisters. If you criticize and judge each other, then you are criticizing and judging God’s law.

James 4:11

If you listen to constructive criticism, you will be at home among the wise.

Proverbs 15:31

IT’S SO EASY to be overly critical—of ourselves and especially of others. There is a time and place for healthy criticism, but too often we find fault with others simply because they are doing something that bothers us. However, our words are only helpful if they bring healing and encouragement. God’s Word instructs us how to give and receive criticism in a way that honors him. Whether you are on the giving or receiving end of criticism, allow God’s truth to convict you and encourage you toward speech that is gracious, truthful, and loving, and a blessing to others.

Prayer Prompts

Lord, my most recent interaction with criticism left me feeling . . .

Your Word reminds me that before I criticize others, I need to . . .