Complaining

complaining - Why is it important that I break my habit of complaining?

Do everything without complaining and arguing.

Philippians 2:14

Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them.

Ephesians 4:29

You must give an account on judgment day for every idle word you speak.

Matthew 12:36

The tongue can bring death or life.

Proverbs 18:21

WHEN TALKING with our friends or coworkers, it’s easy to gripe about everything from our jobs to our romantic relationships to our kids and even our churches. It is tempting to believe our complaining is just innocent banter or a way to get something off our chests. But complaining has a greater impact on our hearts and lives than we realize. It saps our joy and leaves us feeling bitter, discouraged, and ungrateful. Our words have the power to change the way we view our circumstances and even our relationship with God. That is why God’s Word emphasizes the incredible influence our tongues hold. We can actively fight against complaining by becoming aware of what comes out of our mouths and then, with the power of the Holy Spirit, changing irritable words into those that are thankful, cheerful, and encouraging to others. The attitude of your heart changes as you intentionally seek to change your words.

Prayer Prompts

Lord, I am most tempted to complain about . . .

Your Word warns me to be careful with my words because . . .