What is the best way to change my abusive patterns?

Q: What is the best way to change my abusive patterns?

Romans 13:10Love does no wrong to others.1 Corinthians 13:4-6Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out.Love restrains us from abusing others—physically or in any other way. This is not a roller-coaster love based on feelings, but a rock-solid commitment to protect and nurture regardless of our feelings at a particular moment. Violence or abuse against another is never done in the name of love.

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Romans 13:10Love does no wrong to others.

1 Corinthians 13:4-6Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out.

Love restrains us from abusing others—physically or in any other way. This is not a roller-coaster love based on feelings, but a rock-solid commitment to protect and nurture regardless of our feelings at a particular moment. Violence or abuse against another is never done in the name of love.