Five Simple Rules

My little children, let us not love in word or in tongue, but in deed and in truth.

1 John 3:18

The best way to have friends is to be one, and we can all do that. Fortunately, the rules for being a friend are simple enough for anyone to master.

First, work on your relationship with the Lord every day. The love we need for others comes from Him, and if we walk in the light with Him, we’ll be able to have fellowship with others (1 John 1:7). And with His love comes His joy, peace, and patience.

Second, avoid the use of the word I. When you’re with others, ask about their day, their health, and their burdens.

Third, don’t be easily offended. A prudent person overlooks an insult (Proverbs 12:16, NIV). Good friends have thick skins.

Fourth, be cheerful. No one wants to be around a grumpy, irritable, or depressed spirit. Be friendly!

Fifth, drop everything to help your friend in a time of crisis or emergency. After all, you never know when you’ll be on the receiving end.

Cultivate your friendships, and they will come back to bless you.

A friend knows when you have a need and comes to strengthen you in the hand of God.

DAVID JEREMIAH