The Wisdom Of Silence

Though he slay me, yet will I hope in him.

Job 13:15

Oh, if we could only replicate those times we’ve said just the right thing at just the right time, straight out of God’s wisdom. Those times are beautiful and encouraging for everyone. Yet it’s wise to admit when it’s not one of those times. We can use the gift of compassionate silence when we really, truly don’t know what to say. God gives us the freedom to not know it all, all the time.

Job, a man in the Bible who lost everything, had three friends. When they heard about his unimaginably tragic losses, they “met together by agreement to go and sympathize with him and comfort him” (Job 2:11). Grieving with and for their friend, these men sat with Job for seven days and seven nights. They said nothing. Their very presence with their hurting friend spoke volumes about their compassion and concern.

When you don’t know what to say, try showing God’s love. It will be much more helpful and healing than any empty words could be. “Be strong and take heart and wait for the LORD” (Psalm 27:14).

When friends are hurting, Lord, show me how to simply be with them. Give me wisdom, and let me be quiet evidence of Your love.