Confessions Of A Leaner

Come close to God, and God will come close to you.

James 4:8

As much as I’d like to, I can’t hide it: I’m a leaner. I am always being caught in the act by my family and friends who are the embarrassed recipients of my natural inclination. I stopped counting the number of times my daughter has said in a public place, “Mom, you’re leaning on me.” I was oblivious! My “problem” is that I love to be close to people. Growing up, when I was walking anywhere with my friends—down the sidewalk, in the mall—they would be victims each and every time. I would just be brushing a shoulder!

Being in close proximity to people I love is how God made me. When I speak at churches or to women’s groups, I ask if I can be as close to the women as possible. My husband, Mark, is the exact opposite. He needs some room, some sweet space! It’s not just because he’s tall; it’s his reserved personality. Can you see why we’re definitely a match made in heaven?

Naturally, I love leaning (pun intended!) toward the truth of today’s verse. I can relate to it so well. It’s comforting to know that our awesome God revels in our company. How amazing is that?

If you’re thinking, Kim, I’m too busy. I don’t really have time to draw close to God, here’s what I would say: If you are reading this right now, you are actually being still for a moment. You are drawing close to God. Since God is the Word, we come close to Him by listening to what He has to say. As you meditate on His Word, you are leaning on Him.

Lean in, listen, and learn from God. Listen to others who love and lean on Him too. We can share this wonderful truth with those who do not know there is Someone they can lean on every day.

What has God taught you recently as you’ve leaned on Him? Find someone who needs to hear how God came close to you.