Evidence Of Love

Evidence of Love

When [the wise men] saw the star, they were filled with joy! They entered the house and saw the child with his mother, Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped him. Then they opened their treasure chests and gave him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh.

Matthew 2:10-11

WHEN IS THE LAST TIME you gave your spouse a gift? What did you give? If you can’t answer those questions, a gift is long overdue. Gift giving is one of the five fundamental languages of love. A gift to your spouse is visible evidence of your loving thoughts.

The most famous gifts in the Bible are undoubtedly the gifts from the wise men to the baby Jesus. These men brought costly gifts of gold and expensive spices, and in doing so they honored Jesus and showed that they believed him to be a king. I’m sure Mary and Joseph were awed by these beautiful things and the love for their son they signified.

The gift need not be expensive. Guys, you can get flowers free. Just go out in your yard and pick one. That’s what your children do. No flowers in your yard? Try your neighbors’ yard. Ask them; they’ll give you a flower.

However, if you can afford to buy gifts, don’t give free flowers. Why not invest some of your money in your marriage? Give your spouse something you know will be appreciated. If you’re not certain, ask! Explain that you want to do something nice, and ask for a list of some things your spouse would like to have. That’s valuable information. Use it to build your relationship.

Father, thank you for the example of the wise men, who brought the best they had to show their love for Jesus. Help me to do my best to express love to my spouse through thoughtful, meaningful gifts.

Gifts