Listening

Listening

My child, how I will rejoice if you become wise. Yes, my heart will thrill when you speak what it right and just.

Proverbs 23:15-16

My oldest son, Chad, owns a twelve-year-old white Pontiac Bonneville. It’s served him well during his post-college years, carrying him to camping trips on the West Coast, friends’ weddings on the East Coast, and back and forth to the high school where he teaches every day. But with over 160,000 miles on his car, he suspected that it might be approaching its demise. Recently, after his car failed an emissions test, Chad concluded that the car had indeed reached the end of the line.

When Chad showed me the charts and graphs he received from the Illinois Vehicle Inspection Station, I better understood the reason for emissions testing. The inspection station tests cars for carbon monoxide (a toxic gas) and hydrocarbons (unburned fuel that causes smog and contributes to eye and throat discomfort). A dictionary definition of the word emit is “to utter or exhale.” After I read that, I got to wondering, What would happen if we moms were required to have periodic emissions testing on our speech? What if someone listened to us and tested the words that we utter throughout the day?

Would our words be full of kindness, truth, wisdom, and blessing? Or would they be found to be full of criticism, rumors, flattery, and anger? Although we probably all have days that we would fail the test, here’s the good news: our problem with words is one of the reasons Jesus died for us. As we confess our sin and look to him for wisdom with our words, he will help us. A failed “emissions” test doesn’t mean the end of the line for us! If we turn to Jesus, he will help us with necessary repairs.

Father,

Please forgive us for times when our speech might have failed an emissions test. We want the words we utter each day to be words of truth, wisdom, blessing, and kindness. Thank you for the help that your Spirit gives us. In Jesus’ strong name, amen.