So many people are giving me advice. How do I know who to listen to?

Proverbs 16:21The wise are known for their understanding, and pleasant words are persuasive.

Colossians 2:8Don’t let anyone capture you with empty philosophies and high-sounding nonsense that come from human thinking and from the spiritual powers of this world, rather than from Christ.

The best advice usually comes from those who have already experienced the joy and pain of childbearing and from those who have qualified medical knowledge and experience. It helps if they are believers because they share the same value for life that you do.