As a minister, how do I deal with the unrealistic expectations of others?

Romans 1:1This letter is from Paul, a slave of Christ Jesus, chosen by God to be an apostle and sent out to preach his Good News.

Galatians 1:1This letter is from Paul, an apostle. I was not appointed by any group of people or any human authority, but by Jesus Christ himself and by God the Father, who raised Jesus from the dead.

Paul states unequivocally that he was “chosen by God” to be an apostle and preacher. A minister’s primary obligation is to be faithful to the calling and to meet God’s expectations. People’s expectations conflict with God’s, the minister must follow God.

1 Timothy 4:12-13Don’t let anyone think less of you because you are young. Be an example to all believers in what you say, in the way you live, in your love, your faith, and your purity. Until I get there, focus on reading the Scriptures to the church, encouraging the believers, and teaching them.

Timothy was a young man when he was assigned to lead the church in Ephesus, and Paul knew that people would make assumptions about him because of his youth. His answer? Be a good example and continue to minister, regardless of what people think or say.

2 Timothy 2:15Work hard so you can present yourself to God and receive his approval. Be a good worker, one who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly explains the word of truth.

Regardless of anyone’s expectations, the minister should continue to be a “good worker” who “explains the word of truth.”

2 Timothy 4:5You should keep a clear mind in every situation. Don’t be afraid of suffering for the Lord. Work at telling others the Good News, and fully carry out the ministry God has given you.

The minister should “keep a clear mind” and “fully carry out the ministry” but be ready to suffer.

Proverbs 15:31If you listen to constructive criticism, you will be at home among the wise.

All believers, including ministers, should be open to others’ thoughts, ideas, and constructive criticism.