Friend Power

Though one may be overpowered by another, two can withstand him. And a threefold cord is not quickly broken.

Ecclesiastes 4:12

People with pets tend to exercise more, sleep better, and enjoy better health than adults without pets. Pet owners also demonstrate higher levels of social interaction with other adults and often have lower cardiovascular risks as well. The most often cited reason for these benefits is “unconditional love.”

Yes, humans and some animals enjoy a special bond. But how much more beneficial would a human companion be who displayed the same unconditional love—and so much more? God’s statement in the Garden of Eden—that it is not good for man to be alone (Genesis 2:18)—has implications that go beyond marriage. Human beings were created by God as social beings, hardwired to relate to others as friends, spouses, extended family members, members of the body of Christ, and partners in community life. Not only do we need what others can contribute to us, but they need the strengths and gifts God has given us.

Are you walking through life with fellow pilgrims who manifest God’s unconditional love to you? And are you being such a companion to others?

It is the best and truest friend who honestly tells us the truth about ourselves even when he knows we shall not like it.

R. C. H. LENSKI