Finding Relationship Renewal

Have you never heard? Have you never understood? The LORD is the everlasting God, the Creator of all the earth. He never grows weak or weary. No one can measure the depths of his understanding. He gives power to the weak and strength to the powerless. Even youths will become weak and tired, and young men will fall in exhaustion.

Isaiah 40:28-30

We have attended more marriage retreats than we can count. Some in hard-to-find, out-of-the-way, rustic settings. Others in posh hotels or resort getaways. No matter where they are or how they are structured, they always serve the same purpose—renewal. They are dedicated to improving, refreshing, and strengthening marriages. On some occasions, the organizers of the retreat will even offer an opportunity for couples to renew their wedding vows.

Whether vows are renewed or not, every couple, no matter how strong and secure, needs occasional renewal in their relationship. We all need time to recharge our emotional and relational batteries. We need inspiration. And don’t think that newlyweds still enjoying the “honeymoon phase” don’t need the same thing. “Even youths will become weak and tired” (v. 30). All of us need to renew our strength—no matter our age or stage.

So take a moment to consider how you and your partner do just that. Study together Isaiah 40:31, and take to heart what boosts your marriage vitality; it’s a truth that is introduced by the little word but: “But those who trust in the LORD will find new strength. They will soar high on wings like eagles. They will run and not grow weary. They will walk and not faint.”

What can you do this week that will help you soar on wings like eagles? On a personal and specific level, what helps you run and not grow weary? Are you familiar with what helps your spouse find new strength?

A rent garment is catched by every nail, and the rent made wider. Renew therefore thy repentance speedily, whereby this breach may be made up, and worse prevented.

—William Gurnall

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