Serving, Not Demanding

Serving, Not Demanding

[Jesus] began to wash the disciples’ feet, drying them with the towel he had around him. . . . [He said,] “Since I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you ought to wash each other’s feet. I have given you an example to follow. Do as I have done to you.”

John 13:5, 14-15

IN EVERY VOCATION, those who excel are those who have a genuine desire to serve others. The most notable physicians view their vocation as a calling to serve the sick and diseased. Truly great politicians see themselves as “public servants.” The greatest of all educators seek to help students reach their full potential.

It is no different in the family. Great husbands are men who view their role as helping their wives accomplish their objectives. And great wives are those who give themselves to helping their husbands succeed. In giving their lives to each other, they both become winners.

Holding on to your rights and demanding that your spouse serve you is exactly the opposite of what the Bible teaches. The Scriptures say, “Give, and you will receive” (Luke 6:38), not “Demand and people will do what you demand.” The fact is, most people do not respond well to demands—but few people will reject loving service. Service follows the example of Jesus and is the hallmark of greatness.

Lord Jesus, I am awed by your example of service. If you willingly did a menial chore for your disciples, how much more should I be willing to serve my spouse? Please help me develop the right attitude of service.

Service