Expressing Love Through Gifts

Expressing Love through Gifts

A person who promises a gift but doesn’t give it is like clouds and wind that bring no rain.

Proverbs 25:14

I’VE HEARD IT, and you’ve heard it: “It’s the thought that counts.” But I remind you, it is not the thought left in your head that counts. Rather, what counts is the gift that came out of the thought in your head! Good intentions are not enough. The proverb above gives a somewhat humorous description of someone who promises a gift but doesn’t deliver—he is like “clouds and wind that bring no rain.” If gifts are important to your spouse, make sure you follow through.

Gifts come in all sizes, colors, and shapes. Some are expensive, and some are free. To the person whose primary love language is receiving gifts, the cost of the gift will matter little, unless it is greatly out of line with what you can afford.

Gifts may be purchased, found, or made. The husband who picks a wildflower has found himself an expression of love (unless his wife is allergic to flowers!). For three dollars you can buy a nice card, or you can make a simple one for free. Fold paper in the middle; take scissors and cut out a heart; write, “I love you” and sign your name. Gifts need not be expensive. Even a candy bar or a drugstore trinket can bring a smile to your spouse’s face. It truly is the thought that counts.

Father, I don’t want to disappoint my spouse with good intentions that don’t lead anywhere. Please help me to follow through with giving gifts that will be meaningful. May my efforts reassure my husband or wife of my love.

Gifts