Time

Time

If you need wisdom—if you want to know what God wants you to do—ask him, and he will gladly tell you. He will not resent your asking.

James 1:5

I recently saw a cartoon in a women’s magazine showing a little boy sitting at a kitchen table. His mother was serving him a meal, and the little boy was saying, “Mom, where did you work before you worked for Dad and me?”

I both smile and cringe at that little boy’s question. I smile because, like the mom in the cartoon, I spend a lot of time serving my family, and most of the time I enjoy it. I cringe because I dislike the times when I feel like a slave to everyone else’s needs and wants, having little time left over for the things I like to do. After being a mom for twenty some years, I have to admit that finding a balance is a constant challenge. I’ve had times when I felt overly responsible for my family and didn’t take enough time to be healthy myself. At other times I was so involved in “good” things that in my busyness I neglected some of my family’s needs.

For some years I have been praying daily for wisdom to know how to use my time, and it has helped immensely! I don’t claim to have found the perfect balance, but when I talk to God about my schedule each morning, I’m much more conscious of making wise choices since I’ve already thought and prayed about it. And when things don’t go well, I reevaluate and ask God for more wisdom.

Father,

Thank you that we can come to you for wisdom. Please give us help in balancing the many responsibilities of motherhood. Amen.