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Read Proverbs 12

A worthy wife is a crown for her husband, but a disgraceful woman is like cancer in his bones.

Proverbs 12:4

Proverbs has much to say about wives and husbands. This one offers a glimpse of the way spouses have a deep influence on one another. This has nothing to do with the perfection of the husband, for no husband can be perfect. Nor does it refer to a wife being no more than a doormat or a trophy on display. Instead, this verse is referring to a loving relationship in which both husband and wife honor each other. And it reveals the power a wife has in a relationship.

When a wife builds up and supports her husband, when she is faithful and loving, then she is like a crown on his head and she brings him joy. But when she hurts and shames him by her actions or words, she can ruin him. Husbands and wives need to work together to build a relationship in which they are “worthy” for each other. Then they will find great joy in their marriage.

A WORD FOR TODAY

Live your role.

Today, Lord, may I be a joy to my husband (wife), helping him (her) to be the best he (she) can be for you.