Loving Others Like Family

Loving Others like Family

God places the lonely in families.

Psalm 68:6

When I was growing up, my parents loved to have my friends over to our house. They made sure snacks were stocked, and they even finished off a room in our basement where we could watch TV and hang out. They made sure to get to know the kids I was spending time with, but not just out of politeness—my parents truly cared for my friends and loved them as much as I did.

When I was a teenager, my dad loved to make a game out of answering the door before my friends would knock. With almost comical gusto he’d open the door, offering a warm welcome and often a hug to anyone on the other side. I watched my dad’s example as he loved well the people his children loved. My mother, although not quite as exuberant, was always a quiet supporter, offering a listening ear when we needed it and loving my girlfriends like she was their second mom.

Now as an adult, I recognize and appreciate the kindness my parents intentionally invested through their time, attention, and thoughtfulness, not only in my life but also in my friends’ lives.

We can all open our homes and our circles of influence to include those around us, regardless of whether we have children or not. If we pay attention, we’ll see people every day at work, school, or church who are lonely and in need of community. Psalm 68 says that God places the lonely in families, and so often, he uses us to do it. To this end, we can all ask ourselves on a regular basis: Who in my life may be in need of a friend, and how can I open up my life and my home to that person? Who in my community could use some extra support and care, and what can I do to provide it?

—Kendra

— Today’s Act of Kindness —

Look for someone in your community who may be lonely or in need of a friend. Invite them into your home for a meal or a cup of coffee.