Inclusive Kindness

Inclusive Kindness

Jesus replied, “‘You must love the LORD your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. A second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’”

Matthew 22:37-39

When I first met my good friend Myndee, I honestly was a bit bothered by her. It wasn’t that she wasn’t kind—in my mind, she was a little too kind. As part of a leadership team we were on together at a local church, Myndee was constantly assessing our programs to make sure the women who didn’t grow up in church or who might be far from God would still be comfortable being a part of our groups. She wanted all women to feel welcome.

I don’t know why exactly this bothered me so much, especially since it’s a really good intention. Maybe it’s simply that I’d never been part of a group that truly considered what those outside the church might think or feel if they came to our group, so this was a brand-new concept for me. But over the years I have come to not only appreciate but deeply value my friend’s constant sensitivity to those who may be far from God, struggling with their faith, or even wondering if they believe in God at all. She does all this without compromising what she believes, and she speaks truth while wrapping it completely in love. This enables her to implement Jesus’ command to love God and then love others, no strings attached.

Have you ever been part of a community that welcomed others in, even those who were searching? Maybe you’re part of one now. Even if not, we can each create a safe place of community for those who have questions about faith, who are trying to find God’s love and grace. Jesus said that the second greatest command, next to loving God, is showing love to our neighbor, and he puts no parameters on who our neighbor is. Whether it’s opening our homes, inviting others to be a part of a group, or just showing kindness to coworkers, we can all be inclusive.

—Kendra

— Today’s Act of Kindness —

Include someone who may be far from God or just in need of some kindness at work, at church, or in another community you’re a part of.