This Is Us . . .

To be transformed means to become something other, to be changed into something different. And the idea of being transformed in order not to be conformed to the world applies so clearly to family culture.

The more we can do to instill a sense of “This is who we are,” “This is why we believe,” and “This is what we stand for,” the better chance we and our children will have of resisting the urge to conform to the world. A family culture that is distinct and grace giving has the power to both change and protect us.

It won’t happen by accident, however. Establishing and shaping a family culture requires intentionality, thoughtful planning, commitment, and sacrifice. But the result can be truly transformative.

We must construct a strong, definitive, faith-giving, biblical family culture. Then those in our homes will be better able to resist the compromising draw of the world because they will have been shaped and changed by the place where they spend the majority of their days. If they grow up steeped in Scripture and truth, beautiful and lifegiving practices, and the sacrificial example of love at home, chances are they will carry these virtues with them. In the absence of such foundational shaping, they will by default go the way of the world.

His Promises

Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.

As for me and my family, we will serve the LORD.

You are the light of the world—like a city on a hilltop that cannot be hidden. No one lights a lamp and then puts it under a basket. Instead, a lamp is placed on a stand, where it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your good deeds shine out for all to see, so that everyone will praise your heavenly Father.