Daily Power #282

May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had. (Rom. 15:5)

A few years ago, a family in our church experienced the unexpected death of their precious little girl. Driving over to their house, I tried to prepare my heart. What would I say? How could I comfort them? I wanted to be so strong and comforting for these dear people but feared I wouldn’t be able to control my own sadness. So I prayed and asked God to direct everything I would say or do.

After knocking on the door, I breathed deeply and walked in. When I saw the dad across the room, he immediately rose to his feet and moved toward me. With his full weight, he collapsed on me. Before I could stop it, I started crying with him. All I could do was hold him as we sobbed together.

For quite some time, I held him. Then we sat together and no one spoke. Not a word. When I left, I got in the car and felt like a massive failure. I didn’t say anything to comfort this family.

A few days later I received the most touching note. It was from both the mom and dad who gushed about how much my visit had ministered to them. It was then I realized that presence is more powerful than words. Just being there, together, was all that mattered.

Today recognize that you don’t have to say the right thing to make a big difference. Sometimes you just have to be present.

Power Lift

Allow me to comfort others, Lord, just by sharing their burdens today. Help me to show them your heart through my presence in the midst of their struggle.