Strength In Gentleness

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Let your gentleness be known to all. Philippians 4:5

I’ve heard it said that words hurt like punches. When I (David) first heard that said, I felt regret because I realized how many “punches” I have hit Teresa with over the years when I spoke mean or insensitive words. I have thrown many a sarcastic remark or underhanded insult her way. The words I spoke weren’t true, and I didn’t mean them, but they were like punches nevertheless.

I don’t want to be known for mistreating my wife. I don’t want to be known for venting my anger at Teresa or for hurting her with my angry words. I want to be known for my integrity, giftedness, character, and achievements. I want to be known for gentleness.

It’s difficult to be known for gentleness in today’s world, as I often feel the pressure to be aggressive in order to succeed. I often sense society’s message that I need to be tough, hard-nosed, and never let “them” see my weakness. And I know that many today see gentleness as a sign of weakness.

What a contrast that is to what the Word of God says! Christ Himself was described as gentle, yet I can think of no mightier man in history. Jesus told us that He was “humble in spirit,” yet I can think of no one with more strength. The apostle Paul appealed to the church in Corinth “by the meekness and gentleness of Christ” (2 Corinthians 10:1), yet he was well known for his boldness and strength for the cause of Jesus. Second Timothy 2:24-25 tells us that church leaders ought to exhibit gentleness and Christlike consideration for others.

Obviously, in God’s kingdom real power comes in displaying gentleness of heart.

What steps can you take today to replace an attitude of “toughness” with a heart of true gentleness?