Excuse Me!

Excuse Me!

Of course, there will be times when you’ll make an error in judgment. You’ll burp in public. You’ll interrupt someone in conversation. The commonly expected response at these times is, “Excuse me!”

Perhaps you don’t think you should need to be excused for someone else’s trivial expectations. But what you define as trivial others consider significant. And if you’re looking to become a better human being, that should matter.

Our society loves those who rebel against the status quo and cultural norms. But every culture has norms. And everyone has a way they like to be treated. So the issue isn’t whether you understand or agree with a cultural expectation; it’s whether you want to understand and honor other human beings.

Good manners are an easy way to honor others. Asking their pardon when you offend their expectations is another.

Do not cause anyone to stumble . . . even as I try to please everyone in every way. —1 Corinthians 10:32–33