John 2 - Every Woman's Bible

2:3 An ancient Jewish wedding banquet was a week-long celebration, and if “the wine supply ran out,” the host family would be embarrassed for not planning properly. Perhaps Jesus arrived unexpectedly (see also Matthew 25:1-13), accompanied by his disciples, which might explain why his mother brought the problem to him. This event also symbolized joy for the Messiah’s arrival.

2:4 The NLT softens the original language’s abruptness (literally “what [is it] to you and me, woman”). Though not rude, Jesus bluntly distanced himself from his mother and her request. One way we can understand this verse in context is through Jesus’ earthly purpose: He came to fulfill his Father’s will (5:30). Hence, even Jesus’ mother couldn’t dictate his schedule. From a human perspective, losing the prerogatives of motherhood could be challenging, but Mary submitted to Jesus’ leadership. In fact, Jesus’ submission to his Father’s will was mirrored by Mary’s own submission to God as Jesus’ mother (Luke 1:38).